TOLU F.
1/5
If you are thinking of bringing your child here, I have one single piece of advice for you.....RUN
My child was only here for 3 days and here is my detailed experience. Please take note that this daycare does not offer live feed to parent's phone due to "privacy and security" concerns. That should honestly have made me rethink registering my son, but I thought, hey, if other parents can have their children here, so can I.
Day 1: Went in to pick up my son and saw he was left unattended to at the playground while his teacher chatted away with another male teacher.
Picture me driving down to pick my son early, and there was the teacher with a male teacher chatting, the toddlers playing, and my son chomping away at mulch. I ran out of my car, called to him and the teacher, she immediately went to him, take the mulch away from him and he picked another. By now, she had left him already and began forming busy putting things in a trolley. I quickly got in, hurried to the playground, picked up my child and went to speak with the teacher explaining to her how he is still little and also trying to get used to his new environment and faces.
Asked why she didn't keep close watch on him and take the mulch from him until I said so. Her response shocked me. She said, "I took it from him three times already." I was immediately sad. I just left. Suffice to say, I cried all the way back home. I couldn't believe my son was left in the care of this person. She had a stoic and non-challant attitude to her response. How could you not care and have that attitude? How am I supposed to trust somebody like that with my son?
I did mention this the next day to the manager who promised she was going to coach her. The manager confirmed that she brought it to her attention.
Day 2: Picked up my son. The teacher mentioned he kept tugging at his vest and thought maybe he might have wanted to take it off. I replied that could be the reason. When I picked up my son to leave, I noticed his vest was damp, and I didn't think much of it until we got home. Took off his vest, and oh my! the front of his shirt was soaking wet. The teacher didn't even notice that...smh
He also showed a scratch on his face to the manager, which he didn't have when I dropped him off.
Day 3: It was uneventful except when I went to pick up my son, he was in another class with the other kids in his class since they had shortage of teachers and both teachers thought the other already changed my son dirty diaper which left me thinking, wow!
Day 4: Went to drop my son off and decided to bring up some things with the manager since she was there early. He started off talking about ensuring they still offered him the meals served by school before anything in his lunch box, which she said they still do.
Proceeded to talking about spoonfeeding him since I haven't actively taught him to use the spoon or fork by himself while we (school and I) work on teaching him how. I even went as far as telling her that I started the night before during dinner. Apparently, she didn't like me asking them to spoon feed my child. Told her he is fine with finger foods, but things like rice won't be as easy. She then went on to talk about how he throws food on the floor. What do you expect, you give a spoon to a child who hasn't been taught how....
By now, things have become uncomfortable. She proceeded to talk about how my child pinches the teacher. I went on to say, if he pinches, then tell him a firm NO, he will likely do it a second time, be firm again and take his hand away, engage him in something else.
What got me frustrated was when she said, "IF your child keeps pinching the teachers and hurts them...." I was aghast. A 15month old, hurt the teachers? I knew immediately that this was not the place my son would feel safe in. I asked her if she wanted me to take my son away, and she said NOTHING. I went in and took my son.
I didn't even get the opportunity to tell her my son had several episodes of cold and cough leading to 2 throw ups overnight. THANK GOD I TOOK HIM OUT OF HERE.